“Why Men Get Back Together With Their Exes”
Since men do not find it as easy to articulate their feelings as women do, it can be hard to know exactly what they are thinking. Oftentimes, rather than talking things out, a man will walk away from a relationship for seemingly no reason. In his mind, however, he knows exactly why he broke it off.
The woman he had been seeing for almost a year may have thought that everything was going along great and that he was surely falling in love with her, even though he never told her as much. After all, he was a man of few words, but she believed that his actions spoke volumes. He was attentive, affectionate and good to her. She assumed that the relationship would blossom and someday lead to marriage even though he never talked about commitment.
So when he left, she was shocked and saddened. Even though she wasn’t sure exactly why he left, she had an idea. Recently, she had brought up the subject of marriage and children to him. She mentioned that she wasn’t getting any younger and that her biological clock was starting to tick louder and louder. She also had mentioned that an old boyfriend, now divorced, had begun e-mailing her. Looking back, she can see how he may have felt like he was being backed into a corner.
After he left, and she had some time to think it all through, she decided that it was for the best. She does want to have children some day and she won’t waste another minute with a man who can’t return her love. And, if he wants her back, he is going to have to make the first move. After all, she has her pride and doesn’t even want him back if he cannot commit to a “forever” relationship. Her fears tell her to tell him as much in an e-mail, but she holds back. Even though all of her girlfriends have told her they would send such a message, she has decided to follow a plan. One that was created by a man and speaks to a man’s heart. In following this process it seems strange and counterintuitive. Why, if she acted this way to a woman it might seem strange, but she has decided that a man would best understand men and thus she continues for one week and then another.
As the weeks go by, her fears rise at times, telling her that all is lost.
Call him, plead with him to come back, promise him anything are the constant
thoughts that plague her and yet, somehow, she continues her plan until that
day when he does call and she is grateful she did not give into her fears. His
voice sounds different with an air of kindness, which in the following weeks
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“Why Doesn’t He Love Me Anymore?”
The man of your dreams, the love of your life, just walked out the door and
you have no idea why.
Somewhere between the main course and the dessert, he had a change of heart.
The two of you were madly in love and planning to get married within the next
year, but now he’s gone.
Although you had noticed a change in his demeanor over the last few months,
you chalked it up to his stressful job and the long hours he spent at the
office. He used to be such a positive person, but recently he had become
extremely critical of everything you said and did. The man you knew, the
happy-go-lucky individual you fell in love with, seemingly changed overnight.
Suddenly, it felt as if you were living with a total stranger.
And then, with no explanation, he walked out the door, saying only that “it was over.” The following week, while you were at work, he came over and collected his things, and you haven’t heard from him since. You feel as if a part of you has died and that you’ll never heal because there has been no closure. You just cannot understand why he couldn’t, or wouldn’t, tell you the truth about why he left. Anything would be better than him just walking away with no explanation. After all, doesn’t he owe you at least that much?
Of course you continue to wrack your brain trying to understand what it is that you did to make him turn away from you. You promise yourself you won’t chase him, plead, beg or even contact him. However, after several days, you miss him so much that you just want to hear his voice, even if it’s just his voicemail message. But you can’t control your feelings and when you hear his message, you break down crying and beg him to call you. When he doesn’t call you back, you start calling his family and friends who seem nervous and won’t say much except that he’s okay and that he just needs some space. They tell you to be patient, yet waiting seems like the hardest thing to do.
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“Where Did I Go Wrong”?
So, after dating “Mr. Right” for several months, you thought you had found your “forever man,” your “knight in shining armor.” You loved the same food, laughed at the same jokes and were great together in bed. You were positive he was going to say the “L” word at any moment. Then, suddenly, he stopped calling. At first you were shocked, then sad and then angry. You can’t believe you were so naïve, so easy. And you can’t stop replaying the whole scenario in your mind and asking what went wrong? What should you have done differently? And most of all, how could he do this to you?
You try to remember your last date, the last time you made love and the last conversation. You continue to ask yourself over and over, “was I too needy, were my breasts too small, or my thighs too big? Was I not a good enough lover, not attentive enough, too old or too young?” And on and on until you think you may be going insane.
You call your girlfriends and hash it over and over until you just can’t stand yourself anymore, and your girlfriends are tired of hearing about it too. But all of you agree that it wasn’t you. You are beautiful, smart and funny. So, if it wasn’t you, then the issues must have been with him. Yes, he must have some sort of psychological issues, or perhaps he is a drug addict. Maybe the Mafia is after him, or he’s gay. Yes, that must be it. After all, he seemed so sensitive and he enjoyed romantic movies, didn’t he? Then you decide he’s not gay, so it must have been that he was married and separated from his wife. Yes, married with three children who needed him.
You call your girlfriends back to go over these new scenarios, over and over
and over. If he’s not married, you discuss the possibilities of trying to get
him back. Should you call him, show up at his work or follow him?
You decide not to give in because you desperately want him back, or at least
want to know why he dumped you. You continue to devise plans to get him back
but nothing seems to be working. If only you knew what to do.
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